This is a very aggressive 90 day plan. It is for serious minded people ready, and committed to kick the habit of emotionally abusive people (whatever the label). In truth, it does not matter; narcissist, alcoholic, drug addict, gambler, psychopath, antisocial any one of these personality types are by any other name unavailable to themselves, let alone for a meaningful relationship. So again, these next 90 days are for people ready to give up their thankless roles. It is for people ready to put forth their greatest effort. In so doing, you will need to take inventory. You will need to allocate time, money, and all available resource needed to heal. Healing yourself means learning to love yourself, while freeing yourself from toxic relationships. I promise you, this will not be easy, but worth it. As American naturalist John Burroughs put it, “Leap and the net will appear.” Start by visualizing the net. Make conscious choices; GET into therapy. Commit to change. Retool the everyday habits of your life. Make healthy connections. Commit to this process for the next 90 days, keeping track of your daily progress. There is no turning back. You have made the MOVE OUT. STAY OUT!